How to Curate Your Guest List for the Perfect Micro Wedding
Micro weddings are taking over 2025, and for good reason! Especially in stunning destinations like Myrtle Beach, couples are embracing intimate celebrations that focus on what truly matters—love, connection, and an stress-free experience. With venues rolling out micro wedding packages, now is the perfect time to trim the guest list and create a wedding day that feels deeply personal.
If you come from a big family like I do, narrowing down your guest list might feel overwhelming at first—but don’t worry! I’ve got some practical, heartfelt tips to help you keep your wedding small without the guilt.
1. Set a Budget (And Let It Guide You!)
Before diving into who makes the cut, determine your budget. A smaller guest list means more intentional spending—whether that’s on a stunning venue, an epic dining experience, or jaw-dropping florals. Knowing your financial boundaries makes it easier to decide who truly needs to be there.
2. Consider Your Venue’s Capacity
Are you dreaming of a charming garden wedding or an oceanfront dinner under the stars? Many intimate venues naturally cap guest lists at 50 or fewer, making them perfect for a micro wedding. Let your dream location help guide your guest count—it’s a built-in way to keep things cozy and meaningful.
3. Invite with Intention
Ask yourself: Who would you love to treat to dinner? If you wouldn’t personally take them out for a one-on-one meal, they probably don’t need to be at your wedding. This mindset eliminates obligatory invites (goodbye, random coworkers and distant relatives!) and ensures your wedding is filled with only your favorite people.
“Ask yourself: Who would you love to treat to dinner?”
4. Limit Plus-Ones
A simple way to keep things intimate? Be selective with plus-ones! Instead of a blanket invite for everyone, extend them to engaged, married, or long-term partners. For single guests, consider group seating so they feel included and comfortable without inflating the guest list.
“Micro weddings shine with small, tight-knit wedding parties.”
5. Keep Your Bridal Party Small
Micro weddings shine with small, tight-knit wedding parties. Instead of feeling pressured to include cousins, coworkers, or childhood friends, keep it to a couple of your closest people. Not only does this minimize drama, but it also ensures that every moment feels personal and stress-free.
6. Consider a Kid-Free Celebration
Love kids but want a more relaxed, adult atmosphere? A kid-free wedding can make planning easier, reduce costs, and keep the night feeling sophisticated. If you do want children there, consider just immediate family members’ kids or a dedicated kids’ table to keep things fun and structured.
The Bottom Line:
It’s YOUR Day!
At the end of the day, your wedding should reflect your love, your values, and your vision. A micro wedding isn’t about excluding people—it’s about prioritizing genuine connections and celebrating without stress. Whether you’re saying "I do" with 10 guests or 50, what truly matters is that every person there is someone who makes your heart full.
